Cross Cultural Conflict Resolution. What
is it?
The one constant in life
is change. Today, all organizations and the people within them
are experiencing more rapid change than ever before. And hand
in hand with change is the certainty of conflict. Conflict uses
up individual, group and organizational energy, taking this energy
away from constructive and productive relationships and work.
With the right conditions, a great deal of conflict can be solved
without any need for a conflict resolution meeting. Sometimes
love is the key ingredient that breaks through the conflict, at
other times something bigger and more important arises and minimizes
the focus on the conflict, and at other times a common task is
found and while working through the common task, the conflict
disappears. However, there are also situations of conflict that
benefit from a conflict resolution meeting.
There are many forms of meetings for working with conflict,
including mediation and negotiation. Sometimes these work to solve
conflict, and other times they work towards an agreement or a
compromise but the conflict itself remains quite alive, often
under the surface, only to erupt again later.
Our Cross Cultural Conflict Resolution meeting format was designed
to create the conditions for the people involved to really solve
the conflict. In developing this approach, we followed the philosophy
that deep within all people are some things that are universally
the same. People engaged in conflict are usually fixed in one
perspective. They rarely ask each other genuine questions. They
also tend to lose contact with their whole selves, rendering a
part of themselves voiceless. From this position, they are unable
to participate fully and effectively in efforts to resolve the
conflict and recognize the needs they have in common.
Cross Cultural Conflict Resolution is a practical, holistic
meeting process for working through conflict. Within the meeting,
that which is universally the same amongst people is worked with
as a base. However, before the meeting, and continuing through
our process, we've found it is also beneficial to work with the
individual's fixed perspective, enabling them to move beyond their
own view. Within our conflict resolution process, participants
receive individual preparation so that when everyone comes together
in the meeting, they are in a more receptive state, and ready
to listen to each other.
The Cross Cultural Conflict Resolution meeting creates the conditions
for people to truly communicate - to speak and to listen to each
other. Participants then move on to do creative problem solving
together. Finding the solution to conflict is really about creative
problem solving. Once a solution is agreed upon, agreements are
signed that include contingency plans.
Choosing to Use Cross-Cultural
Conflict Resolution in Your Meeting
Cross Cultural Conflict Resolution
Facilitation Training Workshops